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Loving you without seeing you.

Although, the sky is clear, but not my heart,

Because, the person I wish that my hand will be holding is her.

But all those were the past, I couldn’t even hope for it now, because if I continue,

It will be an illusion.

Perhaps, if I continue to dream, even if you’re smiling,

You’re not really smiling for me.

*I just like this*

XYZ

Return home from Penang yesterday. I will talk more about the it when I have the time.

Well, it have been a month plus since my exam was over, and I gain some serious weight. Thanks to the trip and sickness, I hardly exercise. Now, it's time to exercise!!!!

Got many things to catch up later. Anyway, till then.

20 Reasons Why We Still Need The “F” Word

Yesterday at 01:09
It’s not sexy to be a feminist; it never has been. You won’t be the most popular girl in the room if you have the courage to use the “F” word. But Feminism, and what it stands for, is needed as much now as it was a hundred years ago when women fought for the right to vote.we must continue to support women who want to lead governments and organizations – we still have our own battles to fight. But even more important, we need to support our sisters worldwide who are fighting for their lives and their fundamental human rights.

1. Approximately once every ten seconds, a girl somewhere in the world is pinned down. Her legs are pulled apart, and a local woman with no medical training uses a knife or razor blade to slice off some or all of the girl’s genitals. In most cases, without anesthetic.

2. Of the estimated 300,000 child soldiers around the world, about 40% are girls and most are sexually abused.

3. An estimated one hundred million girls worldwide are involved in child labor.

4. More than 900 million girls and women are living on less than a dollar a day.

5. More girls have been killed in the last 50 years, precisely because they were girls, than men were killed in all the battles of the twentieth century. (Read this one again to make sure you really got it.)

6. Female infanticide persists in many countries, and often it is mothers who kill their own daughters.

7. One American-sponsored abstinence-only approach to controlling the spread of AIDS, consists of handing out heart-shaped lollipops inscribed with the message: DON’T BE A SUCKER! SAVE SEX FOR MARRIAGE. Then, the session leader invites girls to suck on the lollipops and explains: “Your body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but, unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.”

8. Approximately 730,000 American teenage girls will get pregnant this year.

9. When a group of girls were interviewed on 20/20, ABC’s primetime news magazine, and asked if they’d rather be fat or lose an arm, they unanimously answered that they’d rather lose an arm.

10. The mortality rate associated with anorexia nervosa is twelve times as high as the death rate of all causes of death for American females aged fifteen to twenty-four.

11. Far more women and girls are sold into brothels each year in the early twenty-first century than African slaves were sold into slave plantations each year in the eighteenth or nineteenth centuries.

12. Approximately one third of women worldwide face beatings in the home. Women aged fifteen through forty four are more likely to be maimed or die from male violence than from cancer, malaria, traffic accidents, and war combined.

13. A major study by the World Health Organization found that in most countries, between 30% and 60% of women had experienced physical or sexual violence by a husband or boyfriend.

14. Grand Mufti Sheikh Abdulaziz, a leading religious authority in Saudi Arabia, declared in 2004 : “Allowing women to mix with men is the root of every evil and catastrophe.”

15. It is increasingly common for men in South Asia to hurl sulfuric acid into the faces of girls or women who have rejected them. The acid melts the skin and sometimes the bones underneath. When it strikes the eyes, the women are blinded.

16. In South Africa, rape has become so endemic, that some women protect themselves by inserting a device called a Rapex. It’s a tube, with barbs inside. The woman inserts it like a tampon and any man who tries to rape her impales himself on the barbs and must go to an emergency room to have the Rapex removed.

17. In 2008 the United Nations formally declared rape a “weapon of war.” In one of its reports it claimed that in parts of Liberia during the civil war, 90% of girls and women over the age of three were sexually abused. Major General Patrick Cammaert, a former UN force commander, said : “It has probably become more dangerous to be a woman than a soldier in an armed conflict.”

18. 122 million women around the world want contraception and can’t get it. Up to 40% of all pregnancies globally are unplanned or unwanted – and almost half of those result in induced abortions.

19. The equivalent of five jumbo jets’ worth of women die in labor each day. The World Health Organization estimates that 536,000 women perished in pregnancy or childbirth in 2005, a toll that has hardly changed in 30 years.

20. It would take an estimated $9 billion a year to provide all effective interventions for maternal and newborn health to 95% of the world’s population. In contrast, the world spends $40 billion per year on dog food.


HERE IS THE BEST PART! Things that you can do to change the mindset of people around you or even have a different view of what you thought feminism was before :-


1. Start the discussion – forward this article and argue about it with others (women and men).
2. If you are interested to get a better jist of this issue, try watching Isabelle Allende’s passionate TED talk or support women survivors of war and help them to rebuild their communities through Women for Women International.
3. Arden readers...? Read “Half The Sky. Turning Oppression Into Opportunity For Women Worldwide” by Nicholas Kristof and Sheryl WuDunn.
4. Or if you think the term “Feminism” is working against rather than for us – think of a new name and send it to me!

Light.

Time after time, the distain surface was never looked upon.

For Eternity?

Neither joy nor sadness,

For either way of looking from afar;

Light of Hope, shall never forestall the spirit of hope,

Reason for all this?

For only once, just once.

Z O O.

This post is super delayed! Haha As you can see, four of us went to Zoo Negara. Yeah, you read it right, ZOO NEGARA. On 28th May, we went there, expected more than 4 people. And, most of them didn't come (FFK us). Oh well, they gave valid reason, though.

Anyway, check out the picture.


I like this picture the most, it's really nice. Reason? Well, peace? This is the starting point when we started our journey around.


































































I let the picture to do the talking. haha Yeah, Lazy. Well, had wonderful day though, it's nice to walk around and enjoy the view (just the smell is a lil bit...). Well, I won't be going to zoo for a really long time.

Later.

Sea

I'm waiting, still waiting.

In the sea of memories, if you looking for me

I will be here, as always.

I'd be this boyfriend ?

Don't care if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend right now.

I don't care if you are a guy or a woman or Michael Jackson.

Just read this, it will make a difference.

If only everyone could see this and understand it.

When she stares at your mouth
Kiss her

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummie cause she thinks shes
stronger than you
Grab her and dont let go


When she starts cursing at you trying to act all tough
Kiss her and tell her you love her

When she's quiet
Ask her whats wrong

When she ignores you
Give her your attention

When she pulls away
Pull her back

When you see her at her worst
Tell her she's beautiful

When you see her start crying
Just hold her and don't say a word

When you see her walking
Sneak up and hug her waist from behind <3

When she's scared
Protect her

When she steals your favorite hoodie
Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you
Tease her back and make her laugh

When she doesn't answer for a long time
reassure her that everything is okay

When she looks at you with doubt
Back yourself up

When she says that she loves you
she really does more than you can understand

When she grabs at your hands
Hold her's and play with her fingers

When she bumps into you;
bump into her back and make her laugh

When she tells you a secret
keep it safe and untold

When she looks at you in your eyes
dont look away until she does

When she says it's over
she still wants you to be hers

When she reposts this bulletin
she wants you to read it

- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything

- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go

- When she says she's ok don't believe it, talk with her because ten years later she'll remember you

- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her

-Treat her like she's all that matters to you

- Stay up all night with her when she's sick

- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid

- Give her the world.

- Let her wear your clothes

-When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

-Let her know she's important.

- Don't talk about other girls around her

- Kiss her in the pouring rain

- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose ass am i kicking baby?"

Changing circumstances.

Time for a new look.

There, a new one.

Seems brighter than the last one. Not bad.

Getting something soon, can't wait. Do wait for me.

Ciao.

Trips.

Alright, some pictures to post. Last Wednesday, my college mates came over my house. It's all girls trip. haha The guys got busy, but anyway, it's a fun day.



They came, and we makan-ing. Mum took this photo for us.


The food. It's chinese vegetarian menu. Usually served during Chinese New Year. But, it's nice.


The girls. Went up to catch IP MAN 2. Cathy got sooo emotional, it's fun to see her like that. haha


After the movie, we play some games, but we got bored. "Oh, only past 5 minutes???", quoting Diana. She must be very, very bored. Well, eventually we went to the play ground.









Some pictures got hang here, I don't know why, troublesome la blogerspot. Thanks for coming. I know it's a long journey over to my place. Haha Thanks again guys.

Well, update next time. See ya.
 

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